Be positive. Talk to yourself and be nice.

Being positive is not just about talking about positive things. It is about the way you talk to yourself.

They say that being a positive person without take action, is like a sport car without gasoline.

Sure it is important to be positive. To react in a positive way about what happens to us.

It is very important “to be nice” to ourselves. If we talk in a positive way about other people, but in a negative way about ourselves then we are taking the wrong action. The first action is treat ourselves the same way we treat others.  So be nice to yourself.

Remember what you think more, you become. If you keep  saying to yourself that you are a looser and that you can never accomplish some. Guess what? You are correct, you will become a looser.

So why you want to talk to yourself that way?

Some people think that saying or thinking good things about ourselves is egotistical, you are not humble. But that’s not true. It is egotistical if you only care about yourself, but saying to yourself that you can win, that you can succeed, that you are smart, is not egotistical, it is very good for you.

What you think more, you create. See yourself as the creator of your own future. Talk to yourself in a positive way and then be congruent, what you think, what you say and what you do should the same. If you said that you are honest, and you think about yourself as an honest person, then take action and live as an honest person.

Be nice to yourself.