Three very dangerous phrases …
– I will do it,
– I’ll think about it,
– I might give it a try.
Normally after all, nothing happens.
Someone said that there is a cellar with millions of ideas that never became a reality. Many of them, ideas that could have helped many humans.
How do we avoid that danger?
One … setting dates. Two, compromising our word.
– I’ll do it tomorrow afternoon between 2 and 3 PM.
– I’ll think about it at night, before I go to bed and make a decision.
– I will look for more information about it and based on the pros and cons, I will make a decision to do it or not.
It seems simple, but it is not. I have been guilty of using these phrases many times, without actually making a decision or action.
One of the first requirements that I put to my clients is precisely that … a personal commitment … a date.
And something very important is to write that commitment on paper and put it in a place that you can see it.
Let us give an example.
A prospective client tells me that she wants to learn to relax more and more quickly. But at this moment she can not pay me.
My answer.
I will give you a free session, but first start by listening to the following audio on youtube, which is free and without any commitment.
The person answers me … I might do it, I will think about it, I may try it. Chances are that in the end she does not do it, does not think about it and does not even try.
Committing ourselves, putting a date is vitally important .. and put it in writing.
A better answer is …
Well, since I will not be able to go to the session until next week, I will listen to the audio every day, before going to bed and I will record the results and observations to discuss them with you when we meet in our session.
Take action. Remember that positive thoughts, powerful visualizations, fervent prayers … without action, are like a sport car without gas. Beautiful and powerful, but without gasoline (our actions) it does not get us anywhere.
Blessings,
Olivier Hidalgo. NLP Hypnosis Centre.
London, Ontario. Canada.
www.nlphypnosiscentre.com
www.pnlhipnosisparaexito.com
www.youtube.com/c/OlivierHidalgo